Bathing Alone for the First Time and 5 Other Fears All New Moms Face

Babies and ChildrenBy:: Laura Alarcón,Posted 27 Jul 2021 – 02:59 PM EDT | Updated Jul 27, 2021 – 06:25 PM EDTReactShare

Although most pregnant women count the days until they have their baby in their arms, there are certain fears that can overshadow the moment, because after all no one is born knowing how to be a mother.

What if my child slips on me while I'm giving him a bath? Or what if I give him his very hot milk and hurt his little mouth? Health experts Karen Kleiman and Amy Wenzel explain that thoughts like these can be scary for new moms.

Fear is common during pregnancy and the postpartum period, but it's important to seek professional care if you feel that fear is keeping you from doing your daily activities.

Although in the cinema and television we have been told that being a mother is an experience that flows naturally, the reality is that sometimes fears and doubts can prevent us from enjoying the moment, since the beginning of this new stage is usually accompanied by great challenges.

The Most Common Fears Among New Moms

These are the most common fears new moms face. Remember that you are not alone and many of these fears will disappear as time goes by, you just have to learn to be patient with yourself.

#1 Fear of hurting him while cutting his nails

The fear of some new mothers when trying to cut their little one's nails appears when they see that they move too much, because they believe that by not having control they can cause some injury to his little fingers.

To deal with this distress, try clipping his nails while he sleeps or help him relax by massaging his little hands.

#2 Fear of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome

Mayo Clinic experts explain that Sudden Infant Death Syndrome usually occurs while the baby is sleeping, has no apparent cause, and occurs in younger children at one year of age.

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Specialists also share some tips to prevent it:

#3 Fear of the first bath

The World Health Organization (WHO) recommends postponing the baby's first bath until 24 hours after birth or waiting at least 6 hours.

Experts from the organization Healthy Children explain that it is enough to bathe the baby three times a week during his first year, since doing it daily could dry out his skin.

#4 Fear of Separation

Many moms are nervous about going back to work or even leaving the house for a few minutes, fearing that something terrible could happen to their baby, as they explain in Baby Doppler.

With the arrival of your little one you need to reorganize your schedule, so find a way to work some days from home or accumulate hours to have an extra day off. Also allow yourself to rest by asking for help to care for your son or daughter.

You can rely on a family member or hire a specialized babysitter. The most important thing is that you remember that you are not alone at this stage and that you need self-care. The only way to raise happy and healthy children is by setting an example.

#5 Fear of Getting Sick

It's natural to be afraid of your little one getting sick. Although it is something that you will not always be able to control, going to the pediatrician at any sign of discomfort can prevent a disease from becoming complicated.

Also, don't forget to always be aware of their vaccinations.

#6 Fear of having an accident at home

Before the arrival of your baby, condition your entire house to make it safe: put protectors on the sockets, locks on the cupboard doors , bars for the stairs, etc. Taking care of those little details can give you great peace of mind.

We know that being a new mother is a huge challenge, but you must trust that your love for your baby will guide you to take care of it in the best way. Take heart, you are not alone!

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