Tania Llasera goes alone from "honeymoon" to Lekeitio

Álava Dmoda

Tania Llasera has given these days a "honeymoon" for her in Lekeitio.The Biscay presenter, who veranea in this coastal municipality, has traveled this time without her husband and two children, Pepe Bowie, 5, and Lucía Lennox, 3.«They are a vacation that I have not searched, my mother has made a double sprain and I have gone to take care of her, obviously, I was not going to take the children to give her more work.It has been because of coincidences, but it has been very good, to me and them, ”the communicator had to explain to those followers who have asked her how she has done it to travel without her children.Tania, criticized several times for her way of understanding motherhood, has shared two photographs in which she enjoys a beach day thanks to the good weather of this weekend in Euskadi."Happiness bears my name at the beach moments," he writes next to one of the snapshots, in which he appears smiling and relaxed as he lifts his thumb with his fist closed to indicate that he is, that she is happy despite the fact that the kids beThey have stayed in Madrid with the father.

The presenter, who uses her social networks to "make visible the normal, real and what there is", take advantage of her media pull to demonstrate that disconnecting cartoons, swings or duties is not only necessary, but also healthy.Traditionally, the concept of being a mother has been linked to words such as «self -denouncing, unconditional delivery, submission...»The mother must be that unconditional person who never fails her children, who is always there and who is able to give up everything so that children are fine.A trial that comes from when women only dedicated themselves to caring and organizing the home, stewing, cleaning, sewing, piglets or lice removing.But times have changed.

Tania wanted to share a reflection that can help many women not feel guilty for combining their motherhood with their work, for dedicating time to themselves, for wanting to go to the gym or read a book alone on the couch."I had never separated so much time from them, a week, but well that the oldest is already five and a half years," the presenter begins as if he had to justify himself.«It has been very necessary, now they are valued, they are already asking 'where is mom' and I have them catchy, which is a joy.What I try to think is that the happier I am, the better mother I will be.The more rested and the better I am, the better mother I will be for my children, ”emphasizes the communicator.

Too many roles, demands and very high expectations surround women today.Therefore, the Biscay transmits an important message to all of them or, at least, to the more than 716.000 people who follow her: children are happier if their mothers feel satisfied, full and professionally made.Do not fool yourself by self -conventing that being a mother is enough to feel complete.«Almost a week without seeing my children.Today this honeymoon ends living the singular.And I finish it in the best way: Lopez's cream ice cream in hand and San Nicolás island in the background.Long live Lekeitio and live life.Desire to have my blondes too, ”he writes in a publication in which he poses smiling in the coastal municipality, where he has enjoyed the company of his mother and his two aunts" Llasera ".

Tania tries to demonstrate on her Instagram that working and having friends and hobbies is part of the fullness of a person, and that mothers are also people.In addition, in the reflection he has shared with his followers, he says that it is also important "that the children are with their father without me, to give him the opportunity to be dad without mom being always in the middle".Because, in the end, it is not about scoring the worth as a mother based on the amount of time dedicated to the children.The important thing is the quality of relationships and the link with our children.And, it should not forget, that phrase that American writer Jill Churchill pronounced: "There is no way to be a perfect mother, there are a million ways to be a good mother".